Saturday, June 5, 2010
just some thoughts
Seriously why do men think that us women could be bought off? And that too with expensive/luxurious gifts?
Maybe some women who are known as “gold-diggers” use men for their prized possessions, or other women who fulfills a man’s hopes in return of something pricey, who are commonly known as “prostitutes” may do this. But not every ordinary woman you meet on the street is a thirsty gold digger or a filthy whore! But why can’t men get this?
Men think that by giving women gifts they would just forgive them for the things they done? That the women would forgive them for the countless number of times they’ve let them down? Or the numerous occasions where they ignored their feelings could be bought off with expensive gifts?
Seriously, when people do that we feel like whores. Like prostitutes, as if all we do for them, all the love and taking care of them we do out of love, is for a charge? We don’t charge them! And even though they don’t give us money, trying to cover up their mistakes by giving them gifts is saying the same thing! Gives out the same meaning!
I’m not saying women do not fancy expensive gifts, or gifts for that matter. They do. But not as a cover up, or pay off material. Maybe for an occasional birthday. Or an anniversary. Gifts they give out of love, not to please the woman because the guy probably made her angry!?
We are just ordinary human beings, why can’t men get that anything they do out of love, any gesture, even if it’s just asking how we are feeling, is a way they can make us happy? Or just by giving us a hand while we do our work, or helping us out in the household activities would brighten up our day much more than any expensive gift they could give us?
Seriously guys, think before u go off and buy that expensive gift for your woman. Are you buying that to get out of trouble? As a payoff for the work she does for you? Or just to make her feel appreciated while u make her feel loved in other ways? Think.
Maybe some women who are known as “gold-diggers” use men for their prized possessions, or other women who fulfills a man’s hopes in return of something pricey, who are commonly known as “prostitutes” may do this. But not every ordinary woman you meet on the street is a thirsty gold digger or a filthy whore! But why can’t men get this?
Men think that by giving women gifts they would just forgive them for the things they done? That the women would forgive them for the countless number of times they’ve let them down? Or the numerous occasions where they ignored their feelings could be bought off with expensive gifts?
Seriously, when people do that we feel like whores. Like prostitutes, as if all we do for them, all the love and taking care of them we do out of love, is for a charge? We don’t charge them! And even though they don’t give us money, trying to cover up their mistakes by giving them gifts is saying the same thing! Gives out the same meaning!
I’m not saying women do not fancy expensive gifts, or gifts for that matter. They do. But not as a cover up, or pay off material. Maybe for an occasional birthday. Or an anniversary. Gifts they give out of love, not to please the woman because the guy probably made her angry!?
We are just ordinary human beings, why can’t men get that anything they do out of love, any gesture, even if it’s just asking how we are feeling, is a way they can make us happy? Or just by giving us a hand while we do our work, or helping us out in the household activities would brighten up our day much more than any expensive gift they could give us?
Seriously guys, think before u go off and buy that expensive gift for your woman. Are you buying that to get out of trouble? As a payoff for the work she does for you? Or just to make her feel appreciated while u make her feel loved in other ways? Think.
Labels: Gifts, Love, men, prostitutes, relationships, whore, women
outburst noted at 4:22 PM
what 3 peepz say about this...
what 3 peepz say about this...
